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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious as to why a person feels the need to demoralize, gaslight and emotionally destroy their partner after they are discovered having an affair. Is it to justify your bad behavior? Is it a thrill to cheat and sneak around/get away with it? If this describes your MO, are you a serial cheater and do you ever feel remorse? [/quote] Everyone is different. I think some of it is revenge for real or perceived slights or failings. They feel entitled to have what they want. Some of it is an actual desire to destroy the relationship so you can be free. Some is power. Some of it is cruelty. Some is the thrill, yes. My dad and my ex DH were cheaters, I think they regret it now. It's amusing when the affairs turn into relationships or marriage. The thrill is gone. The drama, sneaking, forbidden fruit, sneaky sex.... and they are left with the misery of being married to a person... like themselves.[/quote]
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