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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You did the right thing.

I can see that I'm spoiling for a similar fight with my mom as my dad is 100% for cremation and my mother thinks that is horrible. I will fight tooth and nail to get him what he wants, just like you did.

She's hurting, everyone is hurting. This will blow over, eventually.

I would be interested to try and figure out who told. Not a witch hunt, but I would try to figure it out.[/quote]

I doubt anyone told her.  I am sure she knew her husband wanted his ashes near his parents; she engineered this whole scenario as a cruel loyalty exercise. She knew the kids would fulfill the dad’s wishes. She just needed a reason to feel mad at those closest to her.

The interesting question is, did she push them away on purpose because she feared them abandoning her? So better to ditch others before they dump you? Or is she trying to test the limits of their love, like do they love mom more than dad? Sick, twisted, sorry you are going through this at the same time you lost your father.[/quote]

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