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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I realize this sounds like me whining that I'm good and perfect and he's a horrible person. That's not what I'm trying to say. I have flaws, and I think he is a good person at his core. I am not trying to whine. I just want to know how to trust again.  [/quote]

He is not a good person at his core. Good people don’t hurl that abuse. I guess at the very best he is deeply, deeply immature - and a douche.

I’ve had several long-term relationship in my life and a few heartbreaks but nobody ever spoke to me that way. The things he said -besides being cruel - sounded like something a 10 year old would say. Even if he was just speaking in anger and didn’t mean ir - doesn’t excuse it.

I really cannot imagine that in the years you were together, you never saw signs of this stuff. He gave you a gift and now you are FREE and I’m thrilled for you. But the work now is not in trusting another man - it’s trusting yourself. You’ll get there by taking the time to grieve this relationship and process what happened - including the signs that he had issues that you overlooked or missed.[/quote]
We had our issues. He was moody and temperamental but he was never cruel. This was just a level of cruelty I had never seen from him.[/quote]

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