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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you for the responses. I see what everyone is saying but like, I am not in a position to leave the marriage right now. I have one older kid and a nursing baby and between working full time and breastfeeding and having shared finances and doing WFH with my husband I have no time for anything. I was just diagnosed with high cholesterol and prediabetes and cannot even find 20 minutes each day to work out. What is the point of documenting things? [b]Why is no one suggesting pursuing marriage counseling[/b], even if just for myself? We share one vehicle and I have very little privacy from him. [/quote]

Because he sounds abusive and unlikely to change. And so no one wants you to be counselled into figuring out how to endure him, when you should be putting all your resources into figuring out how to escape him.

Men like this frequently DO escalate to physical abuse, especially when you try to leave. If your post wasn't reeking of vibes that this guy could become dangerous, maybe you'd be getting those suggestions.

Go to individual therapy to figure out how to leave him, not how to stay with him. [/quote]

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