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Reply to "If you forgave infidelity, how did you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]First, I’m sorry this happened to you OP. Secondly, get yourself into therapy as the first several months are going to be why? What? Where?.. guilt, anger, and self destruction. Emotions will be running high and all over the place. Is your dh remorseful? Was it a long term AP or one time thing? Makes a huge difference in my opinion. Ultimately, my dh cheated with a coworker until I discovered it about 3 months in. He graveled and begged for forgiveness yada yada, but now that I’m on the other side I think he was just upset he got caught in the moment. We did therapy and after a year I decided I was done. I forgave but I will never forget and I deserved better which I got. You have to decide for yourself if you can move past it but it will be a long time. [/quote]
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