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Reply to "If you forgave infidelity, how did you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]We are closing in on three years post discovery only. I dont think I will ever forgove and I dont think he will forgove himself. But we do both understand a lot more where the decision came from and so much about his family and past trauma that led to it. It is working through it almost daily though and with excellent therapy. Not for the faint of heat but dh was determined to try to keep me/ us. I initially agreed to let him stay for 3 months and just kept extending it as he worked and worked and changed. He is a much better man now in so many ways. I think if I did not understand where the issues came from I could not let him stay and he is totally transparent also. But the mental movies are so awful and it brought up all kinds of trauma for me as well. I am working on studying self compassion now. [/quote]
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