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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you can't control what your child will decide to do. They'll be their own person, with the same rights to self-determination you have, not your possession. If you go the donor egg route, you really do need to pragmatically and [i]fully [/i]accept that you can't control this aspect, especially in these days of widely available DNA testing and matching. I get that it's hard. We're in the same situation right now you are, with one child that's from our own egg/sperm and looking at a potential second that would come to us via donor egg. But you owe it to your future child to work through your own issues about the manner of their conception. It's not something to hide; that approach is going to make your innocent child feel their birth is somehow shameful and secret, which should be the last thing any of us want for our beloved children however they come to us. [b]Any reputable fertility clinic can connect you with a good therapist to help you sort through these complicated emotions; please, for your own sake as well as that of any future child you may have, please talk to a professional about your concerns and fears.[/b][/quote]

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