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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you really loved your mom and enjoyed spending time with her. A lot to of people can not say that. I can’t. Focus on the memories you have of her. At least you had a good mom for decades, which is more than most can say[/quote]

I ordinarily dislike a response that basically tells someone to look in the bright side if something painful because it can feel minimizing. But I’m going to +1 this one because you are focused on what your friends are getting to have that you cannot have. But so many people have never had good relationships with either if their parents. If you did, that’s a gift. And you may not understand the dividends that gift pays you.[/quote]

PPs, would you tell refugees currently fleeing to Poland to be glad they have the legs to do so?

OP, I'm sorry you're in a hard place right now. Your loss is still very fresh, so of course it's painful to be reminded that your mom is gone.

You're allowed to feel what you're feeling. Don't try to push it away. Eventually you will indeed be able to focus on the good memories you have, but it takes time to get there.[/quote]

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