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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - you wrote “ Things will never be quite as good as if I had made different choices” - but you actually don’t know this.  Because that other plane doesn’t exist except in your mind and you are idealizing it now.  There are reasons why you “blew up your life.”  Do you understand why?  Focus on self-care (and not ruminating) and care of your kids.  Self-compassion and grace.  Life is not going to be better if you’re beating yourself up.  You can still learn from your choices without hating yourself.  [/quote]

Maybe it blew up because she has mental issues and needs therapy. Maybe it blew up because she is self-centered and full of herself.? Maybe it blew up because she lived in a fantasy world for too long always thinking the grass was greener.

She hurt a lot of people and she has to face that fact.  She needs to do better in life going forward, re-examine her values and integrity.

She’s paying karma’s price now, but she can use it to be a better person.[/quote]

I’m the PP - maybe, but there is no parallel perfect life.  Is there were, OP wouldn’t have left it.[/quote]

Well, she probably is someone who never was happy because she always thought it was the house, the man, the location, etc was the problem and not herself.  Some people are never happy and blow through their life wreaking havoc because it’s never them: someone or something else is the reason they aren’t happy.

It starts inside.[/quote]

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