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[quote=Anonymous]Op - you wrote “ Things will never be quite as good as if I had made different choices” - but you actually don’t know this. Because that other plane doesn’t exist except in your mind and you are idealizing it now. There are reasons why you “blew up your life.” Do you understand why? Focus on self-care (and not ruminating) and care of your kids. Self-compassion and grace. Life is not going to be better if you’re beating yourself up. You can still learn from your choices without hating yourself. [/quote]
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