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[quote=Anonymous]My husband is the sole breadwinner in our family. It was his Dads desire that we purchase the family home, so we did with the understanding they would be moving shortly afterwards.

It was unbeknownst to me that my FIL has been refinancing his home almost every year so there was little to no equity in the home after the sale. They were supposed to be moving out to their second property to which all plans have now seemingly stopped. My MIL hasn’t worked in years due to multiple illnesses and my FIL is recovering from a recent illness. Their plan is to keep living in the home while they recuperate and they are in the process of putting on a new roof (which my husband paid for) and building a second structure on their second property.

It was my understanding initially that my in-laws may come to stay every now and then for doctors appointments. My husband is very supportive of his parents and says they will stay as long as they want/need - but WE are paying the mortgage and for all the renovations while they live there will all of their belongings, furniture, etc with no plans to move in the future at all.

We have sold our home and plan to move in the next month. I’m going to be essentially roommates with them. I’m not comfortable with the situation at all - especially because they are now dealing with multiple medical issues and if I ask what the plans are for them to move out I would seem heartless.

The other caveat being that my FIL drives my husbands vehicles regularly, two being brand new. It feels like my husband and his Dad are in more of an equal/ supportive partnership than I am with my husband. [/quote]

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