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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can anyone share experiences coparenting with wha they believe to be a covert narcissistic? I'm worried about my children and whether or not this is a" stay and work on the relationship" or "go" moment. Blows up in front of children, no empathy, angry, and the list goes on. Has anyone figured out how to get them into therapy? [/quote] You only met him after having children or knew him before? Is this an arranged or shotgun marriage? Anyhow, you made a bad decision worse by having mot one but more children with a person you cant co-parent with. There are few options, none is great or guaranteed. 1. You ask children's pediatrician or psychologist to recommend therapy to the father. 2. You ask for separation until he is willing to change or see a therapist for his lack of behavioral controls. 3. You divorce and ask for custody if he is unwilling to resolve it. 4. You yourself learn ways to manage his behavior. I'm sorry for you and the kids. Its mental abuse. You and the kids deserve better not worse side of him. You are an adult who didn't take enough time to see the signs or just ignored the signs before getting married and bringing children to a bad environment but children are absolutely innocent with no control over anything. [/quote]
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