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We were having an argument and he called me the b word. I basically lost it and started yelling at him to stop calling me that. He told me to shut up which infuriated me even more. He closed the door in my face and I got angry and threw his shoes at the door. He called me crazy and left the house.

I am so embarrassed at behaving that way. But he often calls me a b-word when things get heated. And I’ve told him multiple times to please not call me that. I recently had a miscarriage and he has been so supportive through everything that I was so shocked and hurt when he resorted to demean me by using that one ugly simple word.

I feel so embarrassed to have acted so crazy. Ugh.

So horrible!  :( [/quote]

Don't be embarrassed. It's not OK that he used slurs against you. But, try to control yourself and not throw things or yell at him. It's much more effective with men if they believe that you have control of yourself, your actions, and your life. If he does it again, I would suggest a little smile/laugh and then acknowledging that it sounds like he is upset, and you will not engage in conversation until he can treat you with respect. However, you should evaluate if you want to be with this person. He is doing this because he knows that you will put up with it.  [/quote]

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