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[quote=Anonymous]It will never get better.

I dated a guy for several months who was diagnosed with BPD.  Basically, it's just abuse as far as I'm concerned.  So name it what you will, but abuse is abuse.

I finally cut him loose, which wasn't very easy for him b/c he had stalker tendencies.

It was, however, the best thing I could have done for myself.

Get rid of him.

[quote=Anonymous]DH is being an asshole. That is all.

No... that's not all. He just had to come up behind me and say things that twist a knife in my gut so he could go meet friends and be charming. It's a ritual he has before most social engagements-- sort of a blame and anxiety (and "bad person-ness") dump. So now my composure is shattered, the projects I planned to tackle this morning are the last thing on my mind, and everyone continues treat him like he's such a great guy. Very isolating for me.

Hopefully, the activity will pull his head out of his ass, because it's going to be a long day otherwise. A bigger outburst would also keep me rattled going into the workweek, and I just can't afford that.[/quote][/quote]

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