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[quote=Anonymous]We are Indian-Americans and multi-day, multi-event lavish weddings is the norm unfortunately. Yet, the many multi-day "events" in actuality were just domestic rituals and traditions that typically happened at home and without any guests invited and it certainly did not cost too much money. Mostly a nice meal was served but not a formal environment. They were usually an intimate gathering of friends and family and a part of the preparation for the actual wedding. These domestic gatherings (relatives singing, everyone putting on henna, friends making sweets) they all have been taken out from the realm of the home, and now been put in the hands of event planners and in hotel settings. Frankly, a lot of unique regional variations of Indian weddings are lost and how weddings take place is very much influenced by Bollywood and Indian small screen. Social media has also played a part in making these rituals so lavish. There is a huge difference between an average wedding that happened 10-15 years ago and today. Median cost of Indian weddings in US is 150K. MC or even UMC families can go as low as 75K, as high as 500K. [/quote]
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