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[quote=Anonymous]Wow this annoys me. Do other women like this? I hate it.

I’m all for men being feminists and I’m not trying to say only women are allowed to talk about feminism. But there’s a new guy in my office who is so obviously trying to ingratiate himself with the women here by really hitting us over the head with his feminist politics. It’s grating. Particularly because he’s also pretty arrogant in general, so a lot of it comes off as him lecturing us about feminism. I hoped it we just smiled and we’re otherwise welcoming he’d stop trying do hard and chill, but he seems to have taken it as encouragement and gotten worse. Sigh.

Also, he’s very into being sex positive, which again I support as a general rule, but this is a professional workplace full of lawyers and public policy hacks, and we should probably just not discuss sex in the workplace unless it’s relevant to our work? Like yes, I too support sex workers and the right if any woman to use her body as she wants, but when you talk about that in the workplace you just sound horny, I’m sorry.

Anyway, don’t go this. Be a feminist, support feminist causes, vote for feminist politicians, consume books and art and news created by women. But don’t expect a cookie for it. I do those things every day and no one is sitting around paying me on the head and encouraging me for it. Ugh.[/quote]

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