Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 07:24     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys like this are probably gay.


Nah, he’s trying to sleep with whatever woman might have him.


This.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 07:22     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:The kids call this pick-me behavior.

The irony is talking about sex in the workplace may very well be sexual harassment.


Like this guy: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZML1y3yys/
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 07:20     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

The kids call this pick-me behavior.

The irony is talking about sex in the workplace may very well be sexual harassment.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 07:19     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Watch this SNL skit called Girl in a Bar it’s hilarious and on point: https://youtu.be/kTMow_7H47Q
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:46     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guys like this are probably gay.


Nah, he’s trying to sleep with whatever woman might have him.

Yep. Not a great look, especially at work.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:32     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

HR is going to have to have a talk with him. Yuk.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:29     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:Guys like this are probably gay.


Nah, he’s trying to sleep with whatever woman might have him.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:26     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:Guys like this are probably gay.



I think that gay guys trying to be one of the girls loudly proclaim they are gay, not feminists.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:25     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Yeah a guy proclaiming his feminism is a red flag. And this sounds like that plus an extra dose of just not being socially aware.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:24     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Guys like this are probably gay.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 06:21     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Anonymous wrote:Beta males do this.



So unattractive! No one wants a guy like this.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 01:10     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Beta males do this.

Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 01:02     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

what are examples of stuff he says? I've never met anyone like this.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 00:55     Subject: Re:Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Bleach, typos, am tired. You get the gist.
Anonymous
Post 01/11/2022 00:54     Subject: Men who try to use their feminism to get you to like them

Wow this annoys me. Do other women like this? I hate it.

I’m all for men being feminists and I’m not trying to say only women are allowed to talk about feminism. But there’s a new guy in my office who is so obviously trying to ingratiate himself with the women here by really hitting us over the head with his feminist politics. It’s grating. Particularly because he’s also pretty arrogant in general, so a lot of it comes off as him lecturing us about feminism. I hoped it we just smiled and we’re otherwise welcoming he’d stop trying do hard and chill, but he seems to have taken it as encouragement and gotten worse. Sigh.

Also, he’s very into being sex positive, which again I support as a general rule, but this is a professional workplace full of lawyers and public policy hacks, and we should probably just not discuss sex in the workplace unless it’s relevant to our work? Like yes, I too support sex workers and the right if any woman to use her body as she wants, but when you talk about that in the workplace you just sound horny, I’m sorry.

Anyway, don’t go this. Be a feminist, support feminist causes, vote for feminist politicians, consume books and art and news created by women. But don’t expect a cookie for it. I do those things every day and no one is sitting around paying me on the head and encouraging me for it. Ugh.