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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, Im very sorry about how you feel. Please find strength and please understand that while you might feel awful, your child might be suffering even more, so please be strong for him. parenting an SN child is a challenge, but there are days when the sun is back at your door. Don't loose hope.

I have an SN myself, he has ASD, and in my case, my husband doesn't support me in this basically at all. I am not aloud to mention words such as autism and special needs at home or anywhere around him. I just call it "developmental challenges", not to piss him off. So I guess it's obvious that I deal with all the therapy (although he does take our child to some of his appointments, about 30% of the time), bills, paperwork, etc. One would say, just leave your husband and move on for yourself and your child, but I need to stay in this quasi situation, because my child loves his father a lot. I have a full-time job, which I completely hate, most of my frinds turned their backs on me since they found out about my son, and we don't have that many play-dates of course. Some people in my family say it's my fault that my son is ASD, and so does sometimes my husband. Sometimes I just want to die, disappear, vanish, feel so pity for myself, but I know I should be there for my child, so I stay as strong as I can. Oh, and on top of that, Im always short of money, I don't have a house and will probably not get one for a long time.

This was just to show you that you aren't in the worst situation.   Hang in there[/quote]

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