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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you had this problem, what was the resolution? Talk your spouse into letting you pursue your career somehow? My DH was not that much into being family mane anyway… so I am hoping he won’t mind if we agree on visit-travel schedules several times a year… [/quote] If your ex-husband has 50% custody, he is an involved Dad and it would be terrible to take them from him. [b] A few visits a year isn't enough for the kids to have a relationship with their Dad. You leave the kids with Dad and move. You get visitations and/or travel to see them. Problem solved.[/b][/quote] Say what? How is it not enough time for them kids to have a relationship with their dad, but if the mom leaves them behind it is enough time??? Makes no sense. OP, I would work on getting the job offer first. Talk to your lawyer about options and then talk to your ex. Yes, in that order. If you don’t end up getting the job, there’s no point to doing any of this. [/quote]
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