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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like your husband wants to give her money, just using the babysitting as the excuse to do so.[/quote] This is my theory as well. It isn't ideal, but it might be a misguided effort to preserve dignity or save face. I know someone who gets paid a great deal of money by her parents to "Do work" around their house once a week. I gather it is really just a way to give her money (that also may be tax-advantaged as she may be on an actual payroll). My suggestion is to talk to your husband. Agree on an amount of money that you both are comfortable with. And then start looking at it is a gift or form of support, as opposed to payment for services rendered. [/quote]
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