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[quote=Anonymous]I am in a 20 year marriage with someone like this, OP. I also told him that it was therapy or divorce. He loves therapy bc he loves to talk about himself. He can be unbelievably helpful and kind at times, and at times, defensive, verbally abusive, impossible. therapy is helping him remove himself from a situation where he holds me hostage talking at me for hours at a time. It is helpful.I don't know what I will do in the long term. I do not want to be divorced. But therapy is the only way for me. I don't do couple's therapy anymore, but I totally validate having a therapist in the same room so that you have someone to bear witness and allow you to speak. [/quote]
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