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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are happily married for decades. We have both had lapses of infidelity, sometimes emotional infidelity sometimes physical. Each of the incidents have happened at times when we were personally struggling to meet some need. We both did it. We both get it. It happened years ago, we've moved past it. It doesn't mean our marriage isn't solid, it's gotten better with age. I think it's a sign of true love that we can forgive and move on.[/quote] +1 It matter is the “why” was addressed. If it’s not a pattern. If the cheater gets individual therapy and commits to transparency and the marriage. Learning those skills often makes for a happier marriage than it was pre-infidelity vs a marriage with no inside kitty that has festering resentment and avoidance or conflict or apathy.[/quote]
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