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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the useful responses. It is true that I have found myself in a codependent relationship with my friend. I am in therapy and have been thinking a lot about it. The reason for trying to offer some specifics about the friend is to clarify the dynamic. You are all correct that I worded it as a “help me diagnose this”; it isn’t really pertinent what the diagnosis is, though. It’s just the level of issue (the suicidal stuff, the drug use, for examples) that I’m trying to get across. So when I try to express boundaries there has been blowback that is very scary. I just don’t know if others have had success in these types of scenarios when trying to become not codependent. Like if you express a boundary and your friend winds up in a ditch, what do you do? I know I’m supposed to not take ownership but how do you navigate this?[/quote]
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