Reply to How to tell if friend has BPD

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How to tell if friend has BPD"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I had an ex-GF with BPD. She never admitted it to me, but told me she was in therapy for depression. She had both a psychiatrist and a psychologist.

She clearly had both BPD and depression. Massive fear of abandonment issues. She basically checked every box on the list. I think a lot of BPD patients won't admit it because they don't want to drive people away.

It was the most unhealthy relationship in my life. So many up's and down's, threats toward me. I eventually broke it off when she moved away for a PhD program (she could clearly manage her professional duties and she was a very hard academic worker). She expected that we would continue long-distance, but I extricated myself from the relationship. Her parents were so upset that I ended it, because it was pretty clear they believed I was going to "take over" her care from them. Her mother was so angry.

It was such a toxic situation and I'm very relieved I did not commit my life to her. I would've been miserable.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics