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[quote=Anonymous]My SIL has never liked me for one reason or another. I am sure she has her laundry list of infractions that justify sidelining me but she was never going to "let me in" regardless. She's coldy cordial during 99% of our interactions. I've tried over the years to strike up conversations, engage in things happening in her life, be more like-able I suppose but it's never really been reciprocated.  I always thought her responses were just cold and aloof but now I realize she's been grey rocking me for years. It's pretty obvious I care more around her liking me than the other way around. My husband admits she a bit of a b*tch but doesnt acknowledge how uncomfortable the situation is for me. If I stop engaging equally I see it being worse socially, if that's even possible. So do I keep engaging, though unreciprocated or do I just grey rock back and let it go? I need this to stop taking up so much rent in my head.  If you've been in this situation, what did you do or can you provide so helpful advice? Other than she hates you, get over it :)[/quote]

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