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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He wants us to talk to her. My initial reaction is to say “No, get a therapist” but that seems heartless. My personal opinion is that the issues are about 75% my daughter’s fault and 25% my son-in-law’s fault. I love her dearly, but I have noticed these behaviors of hers.[/quote] You have no idea what’s going on in someone’s marriage. Open your eyes and see what’s driving your daughters behavior and your SIL behavior. At most I would tell my adult child I am here to talk about anything, always or direct to professional help and therapy. Try to stay out of marital discourse, but determine if there is abuse - verbal abuse, controlling/manipulative behavior (like SIL calling you to say his narrative), stonewalling or gaslighting. [/quote]
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