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[quote=Anonymous]I am going through the same thing.  I think there is love there, but there is a focus on meeting his needs and if he feels slighted, can lash out verbally.  It feels like it comes from nowhere (I spoke in a tone, I was snippy) and even if I wasn’t upset at the time or didn’t even intend or notice my voice was sharp, I have to admit to feeling a way or doing something (talking in a tone) even if I don’t agree.  And no, apologizing for hurting him is not enough, I must confirm that there was, indeed a tone, or I was feeling pissy.  And the result can be name calling, or hurtful comments about how he doesn’t love me and should have left me, to how he suffered with me for 20 years and he is a warning to all his friends about how they shouldn’t end up like him.  And then he says sorry for the hurtful comment, and expects me to say sorry for being snippy or acknowledge that he was feeling unloved because of something I wasn’t doing/saying and move on.  The really hurtful comments have now happened four times and they crush me.  The three before took forever to get over and not sure what to do with the fourth.  Not sure what to do and whether this is a lull or he really does, deep down, think that he is stuck with me and it is just coming out here and there.

So, no advice here.  I am in the thick of it in the moment.  But I sympathize.[/quote]

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