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Reply to "My sister is naturally better than me in EVERYTHING. Is it bad that I wish I could outdo her ?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, I do think that it seems like you are bit fixated on this in a way that is not helpful or healthy. I think some therapy to work on your self-esteem could help. Finally, it is worth noting many of things you feel that your sister is "better" at, could be attributed good looks. For example, positive attention from teachers and peers, a successful husband. The reality is that being attractive has many benefits for women and there is nothing that either you or your sister could do regarding the genetic lottery of facial bone structure and beauty. Is she more attractive than you? If so, perhaps reframing your sister as more "gifted" like a PP suggested, rather than "better". [/quote]
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