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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Please tell Brad that [b]I will no longer be communicating with anyone but him, directly, regarding Jimmy. [/b]So if he wants to see Jimmy or know how he is doing, he may contact me at any time. Thank you for your help in this matter, and I am sorry that you were put in the middle of it for a time."[/quote]

This is too much. Just send the bolded to your in-laws ONCE. You should file in court to have a court ordered communication system for visits.

You have been WAY too accommodating of your ex, and he’s going to keep pushing for more and more. Stop. People like him view kindness as weakness. [/quote]

+1. You've been doing way, way, way too much to accommodate him.

The only thing I'd change is I'd say/text/email the bolded to him "I will no longer be discussing arrangements regarding our son with anyone but you."   Repeat to his relatives as necessary.

If you want to send a school picture once a year, fine, but can't he order his own?  Those things cost money.  If he wants to be more involved and know about school activities and school pictures and such, that's on him.  I also wouldn't remind my 8yo to call him. That's on the parent. [/quote]

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