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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you tell your spouse you wanted a divorce? Or how did they tell you? I’m thinking I need to be brutally honest with my wife - just rip off the band aid. She’s BPD, so it’s going to be hell. [/quote] Re: the brutally honest part No, I don’t advise being “brutally honest” about the why or how. You likely attempted to have that conversation every time she was acting up. You’ve already said that bit, she didn’t listen or process it or care. Yes, be brutally honest in a short direct way that the marriage is over, it didn’t work out, here’s your lawyers contact info, she should get a lawyer this week and talk through them. If she starts out on how could you do this, blah blah, at most say: The marriage is over, at this point it doesn’t matter why. I assume you don’t have kids, if you do then you have a lot more planning to do. [/quote]
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