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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I divorced a BPD.

1. Get everything you care about out of the house.
2. Get all your finances squared away.
3. Have your lawyer ready to file. 
4. Have your lawyer tell her (as in send a letter).
5. Have your tape recorder running.

The second she finds out it's real all hell will break loose. [/quote]

I’m actually already out of the house. There is nothing in it that I want. I’ve hired a lawyer and I’ve spent this weekend filling out a lot of paperwork about the marital history, etc. I’m feeling a bit of time pressure. I’m a diplomat posted overseas and STBX is now making noises about coming here. I absolutely do not want her here. I had to block her on my phone last weekend after she was being particularly verbally abusive. She then started to email  my supervisors and coworkers. I’ve talked to HR and security and advised them that I will be filing for divorce and had her email blocked by our IT administrator.

She has quit her job in the US “because she didn’t like it.” She is not on my orders and presently has no valid passport, so she’s not getting here anytime soon. But I really need my lawyer to get the ball rolling.

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