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[quote=Anonymous]He crossed some lines (threatened violence, verbal abuse started towards the kids too) and there was no going back to me. That was in addition to the years of exactly what you said (neglect, stressed out work addict, no talking, stonewalling, basically a bump on a log). Once a supposed life partner crossed a hard boundary, it is tough to roll that back. Trust and reliability were already gone, his unhealth was bleeding into mine and the kinds becoming unhealthy. Zoom out and look at your household. Join a group of women dealing with the same stuff. Listen. Look at your house as an insider. My takeaway was to leave, and I felt sorry for story after story of women whose lives were getting ruined on an ongoing basis yet don't leave. It is totally normal to no longer feel anything for someone who caused this much damage to the marriage, relationship and trust. Totally normal. [/quote]
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