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[quote=Anonymous]The biggest problem here is that you are seriously thinking of cancelling the wedding for your mental disordered mother.  I guarantee your mother will bully anyone who is a threat to her surrogate husban--I mean son's attention.  Cut your mother off HARD and move back to Houston.

I suspect your fiancee deserves much better than a man who would waste 4 YEARS of her fertile years for the world's stupidest reason.  Other people commit time and flights and cancel plans to attend your wedding and you have no problem mistreating them (a trait you got from your mother).  I suggest you let your fiancee go completely (not just the wedding, ever seeing her).

Now had you said, I will defend my future wife now and after marriage and if my mother can't let go, she can go to therapy, I would have different advice.  If you had any morals and stood up to your mother (thus HELPING vs enabling her disfunction), your wedding priest/pastor/officiant is immensely useful in this.  He or she could call your mother and let her vent and get support.  Then the officiant would convince her to attend and how SHE is the one who would have the most regret for missing the wedding.  Officiants have seen this before and are experts at calming wedding stress and have hard data of regret and parents showing up last second and missing things.  Ask yourself why your mother has such a brainwashed stronghold on you that you can't stand up to her?  Ask yourself when she goes senile, and abuses your wife going through postpartem and all the other mils are offering babysitting and teaching DILs family recipes, what is she going to do?[/quote]

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