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[quote=Anonymous]This is difficult. I have to ask why your fiancé was willing to make a major life decision without being married to you? Part of the problem is that your long engagement gave your mother time to convince herself that this lady would not actually become your wife. You should never allow your mother to refer to your intended disrespectfully. The tone for interactions with future children is now being set. You owe it to yourself to try to figure out whether Mom's objections are based on past actions or other elements out of your fiancé's control (being born to someone who suffered from substance addiction, for example) or other factors. I dated plenty of non-black men but ruled out anyone, regardless of race, whose parents were less than thrilled with me for any reason. OP, your mother is forcing you to choose between her and your fiancé. Time to cut the cord.[/quote]
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