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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Bottom line is that he looks better because he is playing against worse kids. It is as simple as that. And that's where he is feeling confident. Competing with peers or those above your level confidence plays a bigger role than most realize. Most naturally have enough to compete on level. Some have enough to overcome deficiencies in physical aspects. Confidence is a skill that can be learned. So dont feel like its over. Find some books on sports psychology and try some mental exercise with him. What do you have to lose?[/quote] That makes sense. He clearly does have a lot of anxiety when playing travel, he has a little physical movement that he does with his hand whenever he is nervous (like public speaking) and he does it all the time during travel games. It's not noticable to most, but since I am his mom, I definitely see it.[/quote] Been through this with my kid and was definitely a lot about confidence. Extra training and a fresh start with a new team have really helped[/quote]
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