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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, as ever people are eager here to be mean assholes in the name of tough love, but the emphasis on boundaries and on accepting fully that none of them will change is important. I’ve been dealing with something semi-similar and finally realized that I don’t need quorum, I don’t need other members of my family to agree with me, and that my perceptions and reality have innate value and legitimacy. It’s true for all of us.[/quote] +1 When my sister was nasty, I was told by my mother that I was just oversensitive. Guess what as I became an adult, every time a friend or significant other were around both of us, I'd get a comment later such as "boy your sister is mean to you" Even my tweens pick up on it. It sucks that my mother will never stand up for me but I can let it go because finally I know its real and not just me being "too sensitive."[/quote]
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