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[quote=Anonymous][quote]My husband is a yeller. He’s intense and extremely impassioned in general and when he is mad he raises his voice. I think it’s the only way he feels like he’s being heard. He’s in therapy now working on this as he feels guilt over it. Honestly, though, i find it is more annoying and ridiculous than scary or mean.[/quote] Mine is similar minus the therapy. He feels he is just expressing himself, that's how he is. I point out his expressing himself intimidates and silences me. His response is that I need to stand up more for myself. It's a huge issue. He's aggressive, pushy, and I'm deeply conflict averse. He nominally agrees to therapy but just sees it as me trying to change him rather than establish vs healthier form of communication . And the times I do yell back he tells me to stop being hysterical. If I had know this I would have never married him but he never yelled when we were dating .[/quote]
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