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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I absolutely believe it is luck -- right place/right time to meet someone who likes you back, luck that you grow together rather than apart, luck to nab a partner who's going to put up with your entitled, nagging, asexual self (just described at least half of my friends) 15 years in, luck that your partner doesn't develop mental or physical health issues that change them, etc.

But I'll get a lot of pushback because people usually prefer to take credit for their wisdom and foresight rather than acknowledge their luck.[/quote]

OP here. I’d love to agree that’s it’s maybe 90% luck and 10% effort but i am no longer so sure. Everyone around me seems to be getting engaged and married so at this point I feel like it’s something defective within myself. In that same vein, I can’t really pinpoint what exactly IS defective because I believe I’m a flawed but perfectly lovable human being. And I can’t think of anything I am doing “wrong” in dating but who knows.[/quote]

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