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[quote=Anonymous]If my narc mom did that and everything was already paid and non-refundable I would calmly put in writing 2 or 3 choices of when she can see you and a date you need to know by. If you don't hear from her, a day before the date you will call. If she does not give an answer you will have other plans. Make a plan B so you can enjoy the trip. Remain calm. They love anger. I do find it helpful to have a sense humor when my mother is in crazy narc mode. She will scream at me she hates drama all while I calmly tell her I need to go. She accused me of yelling at her when she was yelling at me and then told me she always handles life stress with grace. I immediately had flashbacks to all the times she had tantrums growing up at various people. It's funny how delusional she is. The thing is my mom is not pure evil and I have good memories too. I don't plan to cut her off, but my boundaries are major and I enforce them.[/quote]
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