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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How often does this happen, and why does it happen?[/quote] Seems quite rare but it happened to me. Identified as lesbian and, outside of a few bf's/fwb's in hs and college, dated women exclusively until my late 30's. Most of my previous (and early) experiences with men were negative and I had a bad association with them; women were safer, more emotionally available, I had an attraction to them and didn't mind living differently than most of society... Initially started seeing men for the physical and slowly came to realize my fears of them held me back from pursuing authentic, loving, romantic relationships. Since then have gone on TONS of dates, fell in love with a couple guys that didn't work out, continue to work through my issues, and feel ready to settle down with the right man. Finding him is a different story but I have hope.[/quote]
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