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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Team dynamics are formed by who starts. If a problem player starts it tells the team the coach is okay with the behavior. If the player sits, it tell the other players a lot. I don't agree. My son starts. The non-starting kid for his position has been picking on him relentlessly all year. By having a starter and a non-starter, it creates bad feelings and resentment. OMG ITS A COMPETITIVE ENVIRONMENT !!!!! You dont get it, he's picking on your player because he wants his starting spot ! Yes you want starters and non starters. It teaches them to compete for a spot. It teaches them that they have to work hard to earn and keep their spot. It should leave a player with bad feelings however its up to you to teach your player they need to work hard and compete.[/quote] The kids are still pretty young, and he's not on world's most competitive team. But you do you. Doesn't seem like this other kid's parents (who actually seem like really nice people) have the ability to enforce what you are suggesting. [/quote]
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