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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most men (high earners in particular) don't care what a woman's job title is, how much she earns, or what she owns. They care that she is attractive and in good physical shape, has a nice, pleasant personality and would make a great mother. Full stop, that's the full list.

That's why professional women are always so confused when the high-status, handsome man they were pursuing goes for the pretty, easy-going barista/daycare worker who loves kids. [/quote]

This isn't happening. Successful men are more likely to marry successful women. Marriage is becoming a thing for the affluent and elite, people are not crossing socio-economic classes to marry. It's called assortative mating.[/quote]

+1, there's a poster who shows up all the time claiming that successful men marry "pretty baristas" but it's really a Cinderella myth. However, I do agree with the idea that men don't really care about job title. I'm an HR cog, my fiance is a VP. I'm a far cry from being a barista, but my job title isn't on par with his. But we come from similar backgrounds, both UMC and grew up in suburbs of NYC, and I suppose I'm "successful" in the sense that I have no debt and own my home. Like seeks like, but that doesn't mean they need someone with the same level career that they have.[/quote]

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