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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Where to even begin? I fell like I have to constantly walk on eggshells with him. Never quite know what mood he will be in. Blows up at any perceived slight. Very self-centered, self-aggrandizing but really hiding a very fragile ego (as I’ve learned). Useless with kids though he had to convince me to have them! Secretive. Doesn’t believe he is accountable to anyone. [/quote]
and...most likely he is having or had an affair.  Goes with the territory of what you have described.[/quote]

You are right! I caught one confirmed affair and evidence of another inappropriate relationship. I’ve been too scared to leave because it will be ugly. But then again, living like this is also horrible.

I don’t have a great support system because I am too private to discuss with friends and family. [/quote]

I am in a situation that is similar. I feel for you. It's awful. Friends that do know have either:
1. Took a hard stance that I need to leave him, which then makes me feel guilty when I talk to them so I have distanced myself.
2. Distanced themselves from me and my family no longer including us in gatherings (understandable).
3. Been there to lend an ear and help think through my options.

I suggest you choose a very close friend, someone ideally not in your everyday life that will make things uncomfortable and open up to them. You need someone to help you through this. Also, if possible a therapist. Though Therapists have been harsh in the past.

Sending you a huge hug.[/quote]

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