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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Where to even begin? I fell like I have to constantly walk on eggshells with him. Never quite know what mood he will be in. Blows up at any perceived slight. Very self-centered, self-aggrandizing but really hiding a very fragile ego (as I’ve learned). Useless with kids though he had to convince me to have them! Secretive. Doesn’t believe he is accountable to anyone. [/quote]
and...most likely he is having or had an affair.  Goes with the territory of what you have described.[/quote]

You are right! I caught one confirmed affair and evidence of another inappropriate relationship. I’ve been too scared to leave because it will be ugly. But then again, living like this is also horrible.

I don’t have a great support system because I am too private to discuss with friends and family. [/quote]

An affair can be mended, but constellation of what you are describing sounds like an abusive situation.  I'm usually last to suggest leaving.  But in your case, I think I'd give ultimatum that you fix relationship or end it.  You should lean on your tribe now.  Disclose.  [/quote]

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