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[quote=Anonymous]List why you married him in the first place. Is there anything of that man still president? List anything positive about him at this moment. Is the sport and DH's behavior toward son THE key problem, which--if it were changed--would return the family to a more positive footing? Script out what you will say when you sit down to tell him you see him treating your son as an extension of his own aspirations are: sports (if that's accurate). Tell him his treatment of your son has soured you on HIM. Then tell him you have already set up an appointment with a couples therapist and if he refuses to participate you will see a therapist on your own and are considering what to do next if he cannot stop making your son so unhappy. Be aware that if you divorce, your DH could end up having huge amounts of time with your son, without you there as a buffer, and the bullying and toxic behavior around the sport could worsen. [/quote]
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