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[quote=Anonymous]Some labs won’t do this. Will yours? You’re on a hidin’ to nuthin’ as the Irish would say if you’re trying to make him want something he doesn’t want. He may feel (as I did) that the process is so fraught with uncertainty and lack of control that any choice feels precious (I did not pick, but would’ve if given the choice). His feelings are entirely legitimate and understandable. But so are yours! Some people feel strongly about a “sacred secret” like that. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be surprised. Look, if there is love and trust between you I suggest this method - each of you writes down on a piece of paper, honestly, how badly you want this. Is it a 10 to you and an 8 to him, or vice versa? Whoever wants it worse wins. This only works if you trust each other to be honest and not try to game it in order to “win”. But my spouse and I have solved many conflicts this way and it’s been really helpful. Good luck![/quote]
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