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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s that thread where OPs friends all married wealthy men. But I come from a family who are well within the top 1% and have a decent job on my own. And I don’t think any man has every cared. Granted I don’t flaunt my money, but being wealthy has literally never helped me in dating. So I assume this is just a thing that benefits men?[/quote]

This can't be real. You would know perfectly well that significant money attracts people, granted for the wrong reasons. [/quote]

OP here responding for the first time. And no, nobody has ever been attracted to my status. But I also don’t look very wealthy, I wear jeans, flannels or t-shirts, and no make-up. So it wouldn’t come up I’m fairly wealthy unless someone knew me well. When I mention a ski trip, prep school or something else they can figure it out. But I don’t normally talk about that stuff.[/quote]

Maybe the men you have dated really don’t care about your financial background. As you self-profess, you do not really talk about it though aside from occasionally mentioning some subtle “cues” you consider telling. Because you don’t really share this about yourself though, neither verbally or demonstrated in the way you dress/manicure yourself, I don’t really think your pulse on a male response to your financial background is particularly telling. Or certainly not compared to someone who does demonstrate their wealth more, and more openly shares this background. Just 2 cents to consider.

That being said I think it plays in. To what degree varies on both individuals priorities, personalities, and relationship dynamic. I do not think it matters quite as much for females as for males though.[/quote]

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