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[quote=Anonymous]For background - I had fertility issues and suffered a devastating miscarriage prior to having children.  Because of some circumstances of that situation (2nd trimester, spontaneous twin girls after failed ivf, and some personal isssues) I think I was fairly far on the spectrum of how impacted by the mmc I was and I sought therapy and struggled to even see a pregnant woman that looked like about where I’d be in that pregnancy until I successfully got pregnant a year later.  Just sharing that bc my barometer of how devastated someone else may be may be off.

This fall our nanny suffered an early miscarriage in what would have been her 1st child.  About 2 months later I got pregnant and about a month after that she was again as well. Unfortunately she just learned the sac is empty at 8 weeks.  Other than giving her time off as needed and not mentioning my own pregnancy, is there anything I can do to make this easier for her? I would have really struggled having to interact with a woman every day at about the same stage of pregnancy as me.

Both times she got pregnant super quick and from what I’ve read there’s not yet any reason to think her next pregnancy won’t be successful so hopefully she will be pregnant again soon.  I feel so awful for her, she seemed to feel very optimistic this time despite the previous loss due to experiencing a lot of symptoms.[/quote]

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