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[quote=Anonymous]I assume, of course, you weren't busy making him feel like less of a man for only making 25% of your income or things along that line. I will say being married to a spendthrift that isn't a good partner is bound to be draining -- you can get by on one, I think, but a guy who's neither a good household manager or a good/honest/kind lover is not going to stay married long. But his refusal to cut off contact with this woman doesn't seem to help much, given that you're expecting sexual fidelity from him. The therapist is supposed to play neutral, maybe be devil's advocate. You'll need to look at your behavior and find where it can improve -- and so will he of course (possibly more given that he's had an affair and doesn't seem the least bit sorry.)[/quote]
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