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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm really sorry for all of this, ugh.  It's hard to tell at this point where you will end up, but one thing I would suggest is that you consult a family law attorney for informational purposes/guidance. Given the significant difference in your earnings and assets, it would behoove you (again, even if you end up deciding to stay w/ your DH) to understand what the applicable law is in your jursidiction re: divorce, marital property, alimony/maintenance, child custody, etc. It will cost you a few hundred bucks for a consultation, but could save you thousands, or hundreds of thousands, if you end up deciding to go your own way.

I also agree w/ PPs that if you don't feel the therapist is helping, you should try a new one. There is such wide variation in approach and personality of therapists. I wouldn't just assume (not that you are, but a PP alluded to this) that the one you are seeing now is doing her/his job by remaining totally impartial and downplaying the huge breach of faith on your DH's part.

GL, you sound like a really good person, and I hope you find your way through this to a positive next stage of your life, whether with or without DH.[/quote]

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